Broken Bells & Beds: My Blue Valentine

Feeling quite good right now. Funny because I did not plan on blogging today given the fact my iMovie broke and I wanted to jump off a building. But I went on Necolebitchie.com and decided to blog about what I saw. Not only that, I saw that 200 people went on my blog the other day, so I felt the need to update, given the fact people read me and deserve more of me.

If thats what they want...

Ohh my bed snapped..one wooden slack broke on one side...what.the.fuck.

unlimited warranty on the wooden slacks though..

THANKS IKEA!

Here was my diet today:

So good...

Now on to people Im obsessed with:

Khloe Kardashian

You wanna know what I love about Khloe. She was sooo the ugly one. I know her asshole sisters would call her ugly and fuck with her. Im not stupid. They had too. Because her life did a 160. Kim wanted to be married with three kids by now. Kourtney wanted to be married with Scott by now. And here she is, married and richer than all of them. And married to a Laker, at that.

Ha! I love when a less attractive chick proves the world wrong..

Here is her getting her Rihanna on:

On Necolebitchie.com I ran into these two being fierce again....

Christ....

I.LOVE.HER.HAIR!

Nick being very Marge Simpson...love it!

*sigh*

They kill me...

“I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry, like, one girl, ‘cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.”

- Blue Valentine

I love the grittiness in a movie. I hate romantic comedies. Mainly because I know whats going to happen. They fall in love. Have sex. Get married and fall for each other. You will never see me walk into your typical love story movie. I hate them all. I love romantic movies that are indie and real. Dealing with average working everyday americans. No one with money. No one with true hope. Gritty, middle class, american love. Or not even American, just real classic everyday street love. The love we all feel. The non-fairytale bullshit we are feed on a daily basis. The full glass of reality, dating, laughing, getting to know someone. That first glance when you meet someone on the subway...

I love that..

Its honest.

Blue Valentine, is honest.

I finally saw Blue Valentine today. I liked it. Of course I loved the rawness and edginess off it all. The scenes were powerful and believable. The sex scenes made me wanna take a cold shower. It was everything and then some. It expressed what marriage is and what it can become. It showed the birth of romance and the death of something that one was. Im not sure if they got a Golden Globe, but if not, shame on them..

Ryan Gosslin (sexy fucker you..)

I am married. The funniest thing about marriage is the fact it does not matter who you are, how much money you make, or even what race you are. There all the same issues. If I could count so many time Greg and I have watched married people on t.v and look at each other at the same time smiling going "Wow, we just went through that." I would be rich. Marriage is issues. Marriage is being sick of the person. Marriage is being annoyed and ready to pop. Hence why, you find the person you wanna go through all of that with.

Greg and I were watching Real Housewives and saw this couple going back and forth about money issues. The woman (Cynthia) cried when she found out there money issues were becoming worse. Her to-be husband held her and said "You know Im not telling you anything that important again right?" Greg and I looked at one another and laughed. Its all pretty priceless. This couple who had money out the ass and are older then us by 10 years are dealing with the same issues.

We laughed.

Ryan Gosslin (again..)

My favorite scene:

I think people do not take love and marriage seriously, just because you think he is a great guy.. that does not mean he will treat you great. How he treats you right now, at this instant...is forever..

“‘What did it feel like when you fell in love?’
‘Oh dear…I don’t think I found it.’
‘Even with grandpa?’
‘Maybe a little, in the beginning…but he didn’t really have any regard for me as a person. You gotta be careful of that. You gotta be careful that the person you fall in love is worth it to you.’”

Blue Valentine (2010)

Go here if you wanna watch it: Tee hee

http://www.2gb-hosting.com/v/af2fd2d65a9ee6fe1479220217a25cb7/80d495a64589ef0.avi.html#

So the next movie Im about to watch is The Kids Are Alright...

Oh, and before I go...

I find it funny how you meet a person, and you two have never met and most likely you never will. But there is a instant connection. This day and age, you confide with people you never met. Or find yourself clicking with someone who does not even live in the same country as you. I me Jenn about three or for years ago. Not in person, but by the internet.

One day, I was feeling so low. And for some reason I messaged her of all people. And she understood me. We had a moment. We had a connection. We talked about shit we do not usually talk about. And she told me things she never told anyone. Weird..how you can have that moment with someone. I have never met her. Never touched her. Never even heard her voice. But for that moment. She was, a sister.

Thanks Jenn

..thanks alot...

This is her..

...

thanks